What does it mean when somebody tells you to shut up?

“Shut up” is a direct command with a meaning very similar to “be quiet”, but which is commonly perceived as a more forceful command to stop making noise or otherwise communicating, such as talking. The phrase is probably a shortened form of “shut up your mouth” or “shut your mouth up”.

How do you respond to IDC?

I don’t care!” ”I think you care.” If someone says they “don’t care,” they likely DO care. Not witty, but in practice it’s effective to just say “Fine.” And walk away.